Love happens not by kindness
But through your shadow
Tension is the real attraction
Seduce with composure and emotional honesty
Have presence without performance
A lowered tone creates intimacy
It is not necessary for you to win her because you are already whole
Girls are exposed to desperate energy from guys all day long
Fill her inner emptiness by being non needy
You do not have to be a male model or someone famous
Create a space for her to be real
And see if she is drawn towards you
Females are terrified of being judged
And society pressures them into acting like a good girl
What she says sometimes is not what she wants
Read her body language
What her body says will give away her desire
If she is engaged with you then you have awakened her dangerous side
In a more intimate setting you can escalate by whispering
I already know you want me
And you are making it very hard for me to behave right now
Or I should not say what I am thinking
Exist in full alignment with what you want
Do not be afraid of your fire
Embrace the part of you that feels too much
Name your emotions
Look chaos in the eye and remain calm
Uncertain nervous energy gets rejected
If you avoid tension and conflict you lose attraction
Be independent from her response
Where calmness leads desire breeds
If you have faced your insecurities and do not crumble under pressure
You will show your power
The gates open only for the worthy
Do not seek in her that which you think you do not have
Do not beg to be picked
Do not overly crave her attention affection affirmation or approval
Or you will seem weak and chasing validation
You will be reduced to a puppet whose strings are pulled by the whims of females
Do not try to prove your value instead embody it
Know your value so deep that girls will feel it in your silence
Stand tall and display it
Hold on to your mystery
Only talk briefly about yourself
Let her feel the tension of not knowing
Talk about what stirs her emotions
Have dominion over your perception
She will test you to see if you qualify
If a girl feels safe she will become physically uninhibited
Silence is loaded
Do not be uncomfortable in silence
Let it speak for you
By your silence you dissolve the game without even playing it
Keep your energy steady and she will be attracted
Let your energy say I am not afraid of this moment
You do not belong to chaos
But to the stillness behind it
Do not build your worth around her approval
Stop asking and start leading
Come from abundance
Display desire without apology
See the woman behind the mask
Let her exhaust herself trying to keep the mask intact
See her soul and do not flinch
Do not be hypnotized by her rehearsed kindness
Or by her beauty
Master your masculine control
If you rush to impress you become enslaved by the outcome
You do not need to prove anything to any member of the opposite sex
Know when to move forward
You do not need a green light at every intersection
Do not bribe her with flattery
Women respond to your energy
Have the attitude I want you but do not need you
Move with slow calm gestures and guided energy
Trust the moment and be fully engaged
She is not in love with your kindness
But with your shadow
Sexual tension is created by contrast warmth and mystery
Confidence is sustained by maintaining good eye contact
She wants to be understood by a controlled fire
And wants strength wrapped in empathy
Say I hear you or I understand you better now and she will relax into her feminine side
Contain her storm
She is afraid her spotlight will dim
Let her through chase deserve to earn you
The man she craves is the one who dissolves her walls without a single argument
Disqualify her
Tease her
Pull her down from her pedestal
Curiosity makes flirting effortless
And makes her drop the performance
When your eyes meet do not be the one who relinquishes eye contact first
When you are talking to her look at her left eye then her right eye then her mouth forming a triangle
Use the we frame
If she says I should be going
Say Yea we should go
Saying less is a form of control
Gaps are magnets
Build anticipation
Let silence be your ally
You are not here to impress
You are here to connect
Speak like a man who already knows he is enough
Listen to what shes willing to reveal
Make her feel heard
Ask how she feel when doing certain things
Questions about her feelings are more powerful than compliments
In a part of her mind only raw feelings exist
Vulnerability shows your depth
And makes you magnetic if your grounded in truth
Stand in it strong
Boundaries are a dance
Normalize physical contact
You came to conquer not compliment
Say I know what is under your mask
Your wild nature
Your forbidden side
Say I know what you are thinking
You want me to kiss you
And when was the last time you lost control but liked it
She oscillates between love and fury
Your unpredictability keeps her dopamine alive
She chooses the man who is self contained and unnerved by her emotional polarity
Truth is dependency not connection
Be assertive
You do not have always say it just imagine it
And let her feel your desire
Assume it and you will have it
Women know if you have not stepped into your magnetism
They secretly crave to be dominated by someone stronger than themselves
They have an emotional dependence that they cannot admit to publicly
Submission is a reaction to the quiet essence of a man who respects himself
She wants to be led gently and with peace
And needs another body to fill her void
Create contrast and the highs will be higher
The warmth will be warmer
And she will lust for your affection!
