The TRUTH of the matter is, this 'solution' is not what EGO wants to hear!

So why is our divorce rate so high and why are most women/men unhappy in marriage?

While it's great to keep asking why, being presented with all kinds of statistics, bla bla, yet nobody EVER offers a - Solution! Noticed that?

Check this out and see what it's going to take (in the future) for our grand-children to live 'the dream' of happy marriages . . . . .

According to this Anastasia woman (again), much to the initial 'disgust' of her brief visitor, (and later, the father of their two children), Vladimir Nikolayevich Puzakov, the man who first heard this revelation in the taiga forest of Siberia in 1994.

This little 'story', for the first time, explains WHY and HOW a 'New Star' is Born in the 'heavens'!

Bob
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"The second night, being afraid that Anastasia would again put into my “bedroom” her favorite she-bear to keep me warm or some other foolish things and I refused categorically to go to ‘bed’. I told her that I would not do it if she did not lie down by my side.

I had figured it out that if she was close to me, she would not play any tricks.

“That's what you call having a guest staying at your home? I was sure that here there would be at least some construction (i.e. dwelling of some kind). You don't even let me make a campfire and on top of this you are slipping in all kinds of beasts in on me!

If you don't have a decent house you should not invite guests to stay there”.

“All right, Vladimir, don't worry, please and don't get scared. Nothing bad will happen to you. If you wish, I shall lie down near you and keep you warm”. This time there were even more cedar twigs scattered in the den dugout; the bunches of herbs were put very neatly.

The walls were also decorated with twigs. I took off my clothes, put my pants and sweater under my head, lay down and covered myself with my jacket.

The cedar twigs were producing the phytoncideous aroma about which popular science literature tells us how whereby it disinfects the surrounding air. Although in the taiga the air is clean, anyhow. I could breathe with ease.

The dry herbs and flowers added some kind of extraordinarily delicate flavor. Anastasia kept her promise and lay down with me. Honestly, I could tell that the aroma which her body was producing exceeded all other scents.

It was much more pleasant than the most delicate perfume which I had ever smelled while being close to a woman. However, it never came to my mind to take possession of her.

After my attempt to hug her when we were on our way to her place of dwelling, after that fear which I had experienced and the losing of my consciousness, I did not imagine any kind of sexual or romantic feelings towards her.

That was true even when I saw her absolutely naked. I was dreaming quietly about a son whom my wife had never given birth to: “It would be great if my son could be born from Anastasia! She is such a beauty. She is healthy and is capable of great endurance.

That means that the baby would also be healthy and in my likeness. Of course, my son may look like her though he still should be much more like me. He would become a strong and smart personality. He would be happy, talented and intelligent”

I imagined my baby son clinging to the nipples of her breast and 'involuntarily' I put my hand on Anastasia's resilient breast. At that very moment a quiver ran all over my body and in a moment it was gone.

Though it was not a fearful shivering, it was a different, extraordinary and pleasant one. I did not draw my hand back but only held my breath waiting for what would follow. The next moment I felt her soft palm on my hand. She did not push my hand away.

I raised myself a bit and started looking at her gorgeous face. The white northern night was making it even more beautiful and attractive. I could not move my eyes away from her face.

Her caressing gray bluish eyes were looking at me. I just could not help bending and touching slightly, quickly and carefully with my lips her half opened mouth. Again the same pleasant quiver occurred! My face was getting shrouded in the aroma of her breath.

Her lips did not utter as per the last time: “Don't do it, calm down”. There were no fearful feelings. The thoughts about my son did not leave me. When Anastasia embraced me gently, caressed my hair and moved herself towards me, I felt something unbelievable!

Only in the morning on awakening did I realize that never in my life had I experienced these kinds of feelings, — absolute bliss, exaltation and satisfaction.

Then there was another thing which seemed very strange: usually a physical tiredness comes after a night with a woman. In this case everything was quite the opposite and, moreover, there was a feeling of a great accomplishment

There was a feeling that something great had been created. The satisfaction was not just a physical one. There was something more to it, something still unrealized, unknown, never experienced before, extraordinarily wonderful and joyous!

An idea flashed across my mind: “Just because of a moment like this, one's life is worth living”.

I knew, I had never experienced anything like that, even close to it! However, I had met different women in my life who were beautiful, some of whom were rather experienced in love affairs and I had loved them.

Anastasia was a virgin, a timid and tender girl. Still there was something in her that none, among those I knew, had possessed.

“What? Where is she now?”, I wondered. I moved towards the trap door of the cozy den and sticking myself out. I looked around.

The clearing was situated a little bit below my wonderful night dwelling place. It was covered with a layer of the morning fog. It was about two feet thick.

In that fog having stretched her arms with her palms opened, Anastasia was spinning around.

She was creating a small cloud of fog around herself. When it was wrapping all over her, Anastasia jumped up easily, stretching her legs into splits like a ballerina.

She flew over the fog layer, landed in a new spot and started spinning again and while doing it she was laughing, rolling herself into another piece of cloud. The rising sun rays were making then-way trying to penetrate through the fog and comfort her.

I tell you, it was something! It was charming and exciting and I yelled at the top of my voice being overwhelmed with emotions:

“A-a-n-a-a-st-a-a-S-I-I-ya-a! Good morning, to the fairy of the forest! Anasta-SI-a-a-a!”

“Good morning, Vladimir!”, She shouted back gaily. “It is so nice, so beautiful now!

Why do I feel like this?” I was shouting at the top of my voice putting in it all my power.

Anastasia raised her arms greeting the rising sun, laughed with her happy, alluring laughter and shouted back to me and to somebody else above in a singing voice.

“Only for a man the only one out of all living beings in the entire Universe it has been given to experience something like this! Only for a man and a woman, who had wished sincerely to have a baby together!

Only a man who is experiencing this kind of feeling can "light a - 'new star' - in the sky!"

Only-y f-o-or a m-a -a-n striving towards .creation’! Thank you-u-u!”

Then she turned to me and added addressing only me: “Only for a man, who is striving for a creation and

Not for satisfaction of his flesh needs”.

She had an outburst of laughter again with her catchy laughter, jumping up, stretching herself into the splits, she started to hover over the fog. Then she ran up to me and took a seat next to me at the entrance of the den.

She started to comb her golden hair with her fingers.

“So, you don't believe that sex is a kind of sin?”, I asked her.

Anastasia was quiet for a while then looked at me with surprise and replied,

“Was 'that' the same kind of 'sex' the word implies in 'your world'? If not, then what is more sinful:

To give in and let a 'Man' come into this world or abstain from it and don't let a 'Man' be born into the material world? A real 'Man'?”

Well, well, I went deep into thinking. Really, that night's intimacy with Anastasia was impossible to classify by a habitual word “sex”. What was it then? What is the proper word to use?

I asked her again, “Why has nothing of the kind ever happened to me before and, I guess, to many other people?”

“Well, you see, Vladimir, the ‘dark forces’ are trying hard to develop in man vile, mean motives and lust of flesh,

Just to 'prevent' him from 'experiencing' the 'divine grace', the 'gift of God'.

They are trying hard using all possible ways to make him/her believe, by suggesting the idea of effortlessly getting satisfaction, just thinking of satisfaction. By doing it they are leading a man - away from the Truth.

The poor, deceived women, who, not even realizing it, for all their lives, are getting only suffering, trying to find their lost grace and bliss.

They are looking for it in the wrong direction.

No woman will be able to keep a man from lechery, if she gave herself up to him, only to satisfy his carnal desires.
If something like this happened, their ,joint life, will never be a happy one.

Their union, a poor illusion of togetherness, is a lie. It is a deception accepted by conventional society.

For the woman immediately becomes a fornicator, no matter whether she is married to the man or not.

Oh, how humankind has invented so many kinds of laws and conventions trying to artificially strengthen this false union.

Ecclesiastic and secular ones, but they don't help! All they have done is caused people to play around, accommodate themselves and imagine that such a union exists.

The 'inner intentions' were always 'unchangeable' and never depended on anybody or anything. Jesus Christ had realized it.

Then he tried to emphasize it by saying that anyone who was looking at a woman with lust, is already committing adultery with her in his heart.

Then all of you, taken together recently tried to hold up to shame the one who had left a family... Although nothing in any kind of situation could stop man from searching intuitively for this grace, once experienced.

He/she is looking persistently for this great satisfaction in spite of all kinds of obstacles.

A false union is horrible because children are involved! Do you understand, Vladimir? Children! They feel artificiality, the mendacity of such a union. Children start to doubt everything their parents say to them.

Children can sense a lie subconsciously when they are still in their conceptual stage. Because of it they feel bad things.

Tell me, and who would not? What kind of a man would like to appear in this world as a result of carnal pleasures?

Everyone would like to be created by a great impulse of love striving for a real creation.

Those who joined a false union later on will seek a real satisfaction secretly, away from one another.

They will be longing for possession of new bodies all the time or use only their own bodies ordinarily and they are doomed.

Only intuitively being aware that the real grace of the real union is moving away from them farther and farther”.

“Anastasia, wait a minute. Could it be that men and women are doomed this way if the first time all that happens between them is sex? Is it possible that there would not be any way out, no opportunity left to correct the situation?”

“There is an opportunity. Now I know for sure what to do. Where and what kind of words should I find to express it, to put it into words?

I am searching for such kinds of words all the time. I am always looking for them in the past and in the future. But I have not found them.

Maybe they are right in front of me, after all? And they are about to appear, new words ready to be born with the ability to reach the heart and mind. The new words to express the ancient truth of the Original Sources”.

“Well, don't get frustrated, Anastasia. Try to tell me using those words which are available at least approximately. What else is necessary for real satisfaction besides two bodies?”

“Complete awareness! Mutual striving for creation. Sincerity and purity of striving”.

“Where do you get all this knowledge from, Anastasia?”

“I am not the only one who knows it.

The enlightened souls like Vales, Krishna, Rama, Shiva, Christ, Allah, Buddha were trying to explain to people the essence of all existence”

“Now, what's that? Did you read about them? Where? When?”

“I did not read about them. I just 'know' what they have said, what they were thinking about and what their mission was, what they wanted to accomplish”

“So, according to you, is it bad just to enjoy 'sex'?”

“Very bad!

It leads a man away from the truth, destroys a family and a huge amount of energy goes nowhere”.

“Then why do they publish such a great number of magazines with naked women in erotic poses and produce movies with sensuality and sex? They are a great success and in great demand.

'Demand generates supply'. So, you want to say that our humankind is absolutely wicked?”

“Humankind is not wicked, but the 'mechanism' of the dark forces, obscuring spirituality by provoking carnality, is very strong.

It brings a lot of troubles and suffering to people.

It works through women using their beauty, the destination of which is to awake and support the spirit of a poet, an artist and a creator in man. But to do that a woman herself must be 'pure'.

If there is no purity of feeling, then an attempt of attracting a man with the help of other sexual charms comes forward.

The purpose of it is just to get a man with the outside beauty of an empty vessel.

The upshot of all this is that, men are mightily deceived and women must suffer their whole lives on account of this deception."

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