https://youtu.be/1Eiw54rMlRE

This was released in 2006. This song personified what I had just gone through in a break up of an 18 year marriage. I helped raise her 2 children form crayons to adult hood, designed and built her a custom home on 3 acres and helped her get a career. Then she wakes up one morning and says: "We don't have anything in common".
I looked at her as we stood in the kitchen and it took me 1.5 seconds to give a response. It took a full second to comprehend she didn't want to be married, and a half second to decide what to say: "If you don't want to be married, then you go your way and I'll go mine, and thank you for not killing me in my sleep."

We never had arguments before then or after, and there was no drama, and I never saw her again. GE

Lyrics to the song:
It's not just a love affair, it's all or nothing
Do I bet it all on love? Or change and freak out?
When the chances come my way, will they up and disappear?
Will it ever go my way? Or am I out of here?

There'll be tears before your bedtime, you mark my words
You wanted more than I could give you
You wanted more than you could have

It's not just a love affair, it's now or never
Could I give it all to you? Is that what we're about?
If I hold you, will you stay? Or will you up and disappear?
Be forever and a day, like your letter said

There'll be tears before your bedtime, you mark my words
You wanted more than I could give you
You wanted more than you could have

When the chances come my way, will they up and disappear?
Will it ever go my way? Or am I out of here?

There'll be tears before your bedtime, you mark my words
You wanted more than I could give you
You wanted more than you could have

More than you could have
More than you could have
More than you could have