Yes most of us find things that we can't accept and realizing that we can't accept some things is a step forward, but bottom line is we must accept what is. To do otherwise results in self created unnecessary suffering. When we can't accept what is we should change the situation to what we can accept. If we can't change the situation then we are back to accepting what is because we can't change it. An example would be a person who is sentenced to life in prison with no chance of ever getting out. At first they are completely miserable because they can't accept their circumstance and life is hell for them. But somewhere down the road probably most of them accept what is and that opens up the possibility of a satisfying life. As long as a person refuses to accept what is he is frozen on his spiritual path and constantly at war with the thinker.
Accepting what is opens up the possibility of living in the present moment where all life and reality happens. Not doing so means living in the past and future which are illusions that don't exist. The only way to experience past or future is to think about past and future. They are no more than trains of thought. Not understanding this allows the thinker to slowly destroy a person.

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: At birth you are mindless, neither love nor hate anything. You
: are mindlessly ONE with life.

: Then your mind is trained to like and dislike things. You now
: start living in duality, but having never conceptualized
: ONENESS, you have no IDEA oneness exists.

: When you awaken, when you experience The Great Realization,

: you begin to conceptualize the existence of ONENESS; you
: return to the mindlessness at birth, but, with one
: difference, you know it.

: Now you no longer love nor hate, do not like or dislike, no
: good, no bad. Life just is. You take no position
: whatsoever, no picking or choosing. You are not anti or pro
: anything, no more longing or loathing things in life. No
: extreme attitudes. You live life without difficulty. You
: accept everything that happens as the great dance of life.

: And yet, you may find that there are things you cannot accept,
: but you accept that there are things you cannot accept.

: NOW YOU CAN DO OR NOT DO because you know it doesn’t matter,
: yet, you are still ONE because you are not concerned about
: it, have no concerns whatsoever about anything.

: The realized life is without difficulty. Your life, your body,
: embracing life, doing things, IS THE POINT of life, is the
: great dance of creation, but you do it without longing or
: loathing anything in life.

: The realized life, the perfection of life, is whatever happens
: in life, whether you choose to do things or not.

: AND, the “joke” of life (that you now understand) is that life
: is perfect just as it is, whether people are awake or not.

: The result of the process of realization is merely coming to
: the knowledge that everything is perfect, BUT...most people
: have to go through the process of judgement and then non
: judgement and then back to judgement to realize it.

: The only difference between awake and not awake is conceptual.
: He who doesn’t know, is perfect, and he who does know, is
: perfect, so there’s really nothing to say or do. It is the
: realization of this that frees you from your mind.

: THE GREAT REALIZATION IS THAT LIFE IS PERFECT. People who have
: not awakened, do not know this.

: A MIND AT PEACE is the result of the great realization. It is
: the peace that passes all understanding.

: AND DAMN...IT’S HARD TO EXPLAIN IN WORDS, but then, that too
: is the perfect dance of life. nem