It is hard not for the woman not to work to survive in this tax based world we now live in. Before I took care of our older family, I worked the two days my husband had off. There is a way if you work at finding it. Not only did my older beloved family members get excellent care, my kids got to be raised by their mother.

:)

~Bonnie

: From CGI member Morgan.

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:
: https://www.suzannevenker.com/feminism/4-feminist-lies-that-are-making-women-miserable/
: READ THE COMMENTS!

: Snip: Twenty years ago, I wrote my first book about why women
: can't "have it all," or at least all at once,

: despite what the culture tells them. (Hint: It's because no
: one, male or female, can perform two full-time jobs
: simultaneously without the bottom falling out.)

: At the time, the so-called Mommy Wars were raging. Women
: everywhere who'd been sold a bill of goods by their
: feminist mothers and mentors were either lamenting the
: futility of being able to successfully work full-time
: outside the home while maintaining a healthy marriage and
: family life, or they were defending their choice to work
: full-time by insisting children do fine in round-the-clock
: substitute care.

: Since then, the messages to women about how to have a happy
: life — as it relates to love and sex, work and family —
: have merely served to make women miserable. Not only are
: they unhappier than their mothers and grandmothers ever
: were, they're significantly more stressed out; much more so
: than men.

: end snip
: ***************************

: I am a feminist. (Well, a nose-isist; really.) To me, feminism
: is self determination for all; not lowering standards, or
: plastering everyone who isn't a chick. I'm also not for
: affirmative action. I'm for hiring the most qualified. (And
: being I've been living the 'burnesha lifestyle' all my
: life, and I did used to do incredible amounts of overtime,
: and still do 12+ hour shifts where I work on weekends to
: make ends meet, I run most of the errands because my mate
: doesn't drive, not to mention other household crap like
: unclogging the drains and all other gross stuff, I can
: identify what some of the males are saying in the comments.
: There is something I read somewhere a while back. . . 'If
: chicks stopped working, the world would slow down. If males
: stopped working, the world would stop,' I think the wording
: was a little different, but face it. It's true.)

: I must confess I have nothing but contempt for parasitic, high
: maintenance, entitled females. Those are some damn
: expensive fashion accessories who just ain't worth it.
: Dayam, Farraris are cheaper in the long run.