Dear RM Agents and Readers,

Gossip Can And Does Destroy Lives of Good People (I'm Convinced The Dems Take a Course In It!)

This is one of the things I proved was very destructive when I was in High School. So have known the truth of this my entire life.
Personally, kept myself busy doing work that needed to be done and when I felt a conversation moving to this lower realm of gnashing and tearing at another, I would take my leave. Occasionally, I did stay long enough to attempt to uplift the words against those being attacked.

Those that use gossip as a weapon against others often pretend as though they don't want to speak of it after they have brought it up. Often they will say how worried about a person they are when it can't be further from the truth. Help them, (the person they are trashing) they often say, (making the one distributing the gossip look caring and good when they are just attempting to bring down and take from this person). It was a Democrat I saw use this tactic and with finesse because at first I fell for it.

The target of all this "love, help and caring" is hearing the same thing from many directions and to be true you begin to question your sanity. Then you see it, while you are working your tail off, they are moving their lips and wagging their tongue. Often suggesting that you are the gossip (so no one sees what they are up to). They make sure and point out some disparaging thoughts that they attribute to the target when in truth it came from them the director of this whole charade. The one that is using everyone to get what they want.

Often the target is hearing disparaging thingg from those in the community, people will later be used against them. This way the director is working both sides against the middle. This is how they remove someone that is anything but a gossip, anything but a slacker. I remember for a while in the one situation I was standing up for a different person a day and wondered why the director was going after all these folks, When in truth, I was the target.

Many Blessings,
CrystalRiver

In these times, you make sure you have evidence and make sure that the evidence is not contrived by a gossiper.