Dying is easy. You take your last breath and you’re gone, out of your body, not there, somewhere else, above your body looking down or just floating off into space. You are conscious. You sense you are no longer restrained in your physical body, even while knowing you are yet in a body, it’s just not physical like it was. It still is physical, but a less dense physical. You can’t be seen. For a short time you may be able to see or sense people in the physical, but that stops before very long and you start seeing what exists in the less physical plain.

You know you are alive and wonder what’s next. The experiences you will have correlate to your mind-set. You actually project your reality from within your mind and you become immersed in it. Belief systems have an affect, but more so your cultural understanding, what you are used to. A native American in 1790 doesn’t end up on a New York street corner wondering what a bagel is. And a person who spent his life in a monastery don’t usually end up in a sexy therapy clinic.

Slowly your memory return of what it is like to be dead, what life is like when not alive on earth. As your memory returns you start feeling comfortable again, just like last time you were there. You feel at peace, content and not anxious about anything. As more of your old more permanent life comes into view you realize you are home. Earth never was your home, never will be.

If you’ve had a lot of close relationships on earth, the first thing you do is start naming who hasn’t come back yet, while at the same time you remember who preceded you back here. If they were family and you didn’t hate them they show up. If they hated you they’ll hold back but will eventually come around when you gained a more solid return foundation–remembered–and then you’ll have a big laugh.

So what happens after you’ve reconnected and settled in?

After I visited with my parents, close relatives and friends and we all had a good discussion and lots of laughs, everyone slowly faded to who knows where. Faded back to what they were engaged in. Close relationships, even family, is about earth. It was so in my case because I don’t hold on to the past. Some have different experiences. I was looking for the new. I need to explain this further.

If you are the clingy type and need your close associates, they usually comply, for a while. If it takes you longer to let go of your earth past, you get longer, as long as you need it, but there are limits. Everyone who has been back for a while is busy doing the things they like to do and not necessarily catering to your needs, wants and desires. It’s not cold, but it doesn’t stay super warm for long either. Previous family and friends are kind about it, but don’t push it.

There are people who you have a future with (who were in your past) and you may get involved with them, and it will be a mutual understanding, nothing forced, quite natural, and so you may go with them because the connection has value for your next life, or even just value for a little while as you live in this in between state. And yes, it’s your home, but it’s still just an in between state if you decide to come back. Depending on your development, most folks come back. It’s kind a group thing, meaning, super advanced “souls” are only there if you are super-advanced, and less advanced souls are there if you are less advanced. Almost all less advanced souls come back for more experiences. It all depends on WHAT YOU ARE. Family groups on earth have both less advanced, medium advanced and super-advanced souls in them. That’s why you may encounter all of them for a time when you die, but you won’t be hanging with anyone over the long term while there (except with souls like your own) at least in various degrees of less, medium and more advanced. You would not be comfortable with more advanced souls if you are not one, nor with less advanced souls if you are not one. Eventually you will be among folks like you ARE, whether less, medium or advanced (the terms I use: less, medium, more, super-advanced, etc. only give an idea, and are far from precise, obviously).

I had no deep connections on earth, but that doesn’t mean that on my next coming to earth some of them won’t be there. It depends on what I and they decide. And here’s a clue: Though you will decide what you will do, there is reason applied from more advanced souls to help you make the best decision for your next deployment. It’s not exactly pressure, but close. It’s more like they reason with you and you accept their logic because it makes sense. You may not want your next experience to be what they logic you into, but in the end you will more than likely not be stupid about it and will acquiesce to their judgement. Some folks think they can accomplish more than they can by choosing a difficult life, but if they are not ready for it, and if they will not be talked out of it, they get it. No need to waste one’s breath on stubborn. Let them experience the hell of their own making. Good luck.

MAYBE MORE TO COME