Hi de ho Everyone,

In my 50+ years working with people and helping them overcome perceived obstacles in their lives, this is not my
experience. Nor is it the advice from my ancestors!!!!!
However I do feel they should continue with their research, they may have a point and if so I would like to see them prove it.
many blessings and safe journeys for us all ttfn jas

: Push for women to take on male roles in society causing both
: sexes to feel MISERABLE

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: http://www.newstarget.com/2017-09-02-push-for-women-to-take-on-male-roles-in-society-causing-both-sexes-to-feel-miserable.html

: Saturday, September 02, 2017 by Vicki Batts

: If there’s one thing that liberal and feminist dogmas have
: been consistent on throughout the years, it’s that women
: can only be liberated through work — specifically, leftists
: and feminists continue to tell women that if they just take
: on male gender roles, they’ll be “freer.” But does
: reversing traditional gender roles actually make women feel
: happier and more fulfilled? And furthermore, what impact
: does this reversal have on men? Working is clearly a
: necessity for female independence, but new research shows
: that diversion from traditional gender roles seems to be
: most stressful in the conventional family setting.

: Attitudes about women going to work have certainly changed in
: the last several decades and women absolutely have carved
: out their place in the job market. But research pioneered
: by the University of Illinois shows that when men and women
: switch roles, it can make both parties unhappy. In a survey
: of 1500 men and 1,800 women, their data shows that what’s
: good for the goose isn’t always good for the gander.

: As it turns out, women who are the breadwinners for their
: families report having more symptoms of depression. Men who
: act as the “homemaker” parent were also more likely to
: display signs of depression. Men’s overall well-being
: decreased when they left the workforce to become
: stay-at-home” dads. Interestingly enough, the research
: team’s data showed that women had no such decline when they
: chose to become stay-at-home moms. The researchers said
: that their data suggested that women in the survey
: experienced no ill effects on their psychological
: well-being after choosing to leave the workforce.

: Another intriguing find was that when women believed they and
: their husbands bore equal responsibilities regarding
: money-earning and home-making, they had better mental
: health when their income more closely matched their
: husbands. However, for men, their beliefs about equality
: didn’t seem to offer much comfort if their wives made more
: money. Pretty much across the board, men became depressed
: when their wives earned higher wages.

: While the researchers say, “‘Work identity and the traditional
: role of primary earner are still critical for men,” and
: claim that these mental health issues surrounding work have
: more to do with societal pressures and perceptions. Has it
: ever occurred to these people that men and women are driven
: to behave in certain ways due to their biology? And that
: maybe, just maybe, these gender roles that have existed for
: thousands of years are not simply the by-product of social
: constructs?

: As Simon Baron-Cohen wrote for The Guardian in 2010,
: “rejecting biological determinism makes no sense.” He notes
: that genitalia are not the only expression of the
: differences between men and women; our chromosomes and
: hormones are different, as are many other things.
: Baron-Cohen says that biological determinism doesn’t
: discount social and environmental factors on how people
: act, but says that the belief simply acknowledges that
: biology does have an effect on how men and women behave.

: Perhaps the feelings reported in the University of Illinois
: study aren’t just derived from social stigmas; perhaps men
: are — at least in part — biologically driven to feel they
: need to provide for their partners. Conversely, perhaps
: women are less likely to feel a sense of loss when leaving
: the workplace behind because they get a sense of
: fulfillment from child-rearing. This is not to say women’s
: place is in the home — simply that perhaps women are just
: more comfortable in that role for biological reasons.

: Not every action is driven by a social stigma that needs to be
: broken down. Maybe the leftists and feminists should stop
: being so critical of other people’s lives?

: ~~~

: The nature of the male and female of every specie, is based on
: a dual expression. A pair being male and female, are
: designed to fit together, obviously. Each mate represents
: certain parts of the whole. Each mate is connected to each
: other, inside and out. The invisible connections of
: totality, makes this difficult to become aware of, if all
: you do with your attention, is focus on the physical,
: superficial.

: We are one, expressing individual variations of various ideas.
: There are always two bodies, when an idea is manifest. A
: pair, is an expression of one idea, and each mate that make
: the pair, are also individually each expressions of ideas.
: The two mates that manifest as one idea, a pair, are
: counterparts to each other. Form follows function, and each
: mate has an individual function, as well as when combined
: with the other mate, giving expression and/or function, to
: the idea of a pair.

: The idea of a bread winner, is just as retarded as deciding
: which mate should be winning the bread. If a man and woman
: are working together to build a self-sustaining family,
: home/farm/ranch, neighborhood, etc, they know what their
: goals are, they know what each other is doing, working on,
: and what each others strengths and weaknesses are. Harmony
: builds up. They are walking the same path, together.

: Propping up the ego, for either, is of no concern. The two are
: lovers, friends, and coworkers. If there ever was a time,
: setting, to be real with each other, this is it.

: Now, the part that most don't want to hear, is that deviations
: from the norm, as in gay/lesbian, are born from
: relationship discord, distortions, confusion, and fantasies
: that have been acted on, in order to find pleasure, while
: avoiding the facing of certain facts about present
: conditions. It can be as simple as not know what to do, to
: deal with present conditions, and hanging out with someone
: who you can identify with, presently.

: There are others, who were born with both parts, or some ratio
: in between the extremes, and they have an obvious reason to
: be confused, and experience difficulty fitting in with
: either mate group.