Arousal is due to the capacitive effect, when in close proximity to an oppositely charged mate, due to the stress that one experiences when one is living within a potential difference (planet/space). The applied potential difference both mates are experiencing, is a stressor. This stress motivates the individual mates, to seek the path of least resistance, to void that potential difference. Sexual intercourse is the result.
Why am I telling you this? Because this stress and arousal concentrates your focus of attention. This is why you don't think about anything else during that experience. This "darkened mind" is more accurately described as tunnel vision. Or vaginal-vision, or whatever..
Men have to learn self control, and so do women. When you have a rigged society, that preys on a natural function to enslave, it is used as bait. Those who bait others, are master-bait'ers. Projection!?! Those who live by the bait, die by the bait.
Personal responsibility reigns, always has, always will. Thicker skin applies here as well. Callouses and all..
I will add, that bread and circuses are a real tactic. But societal controls always get perverted. How about all those sin taxes? Also, it is common for people to focus on the symptoms instead of the causes. Look further upstream.
Addictions are attempts to adapt to situations that have yet to be properly identified and countered by other means. Usually, addictions are called escapements, to inject a little joy in one's life. The reason people never ask questions about the motivations for addictions, is because the upstream causes are overwhelming to the narrow perception of most people. Therefore, people focus on the weakness of the addicted individual. The low hanging fruit. Which is funny if it weren't so tragic. As the one accusing the addict of being weak, is too weak to concentrate long enough on the overwhelming societal problems that give rise to the desire to experience more joy.
When you form a government to police the people, the pyramid of "authority" offers the rich and powerful a smaller number of people that they have to put a yoke on. If there was no government, then the rich and powerful would have to try and put a yoke on every single individual of the population, in order to control them. With a government, they only have to yoke those at the top of the pyramid, making it easy to control the rest of the population, whom buy into, and go along with, the "will of the people" idea. The individual who decides to stand against the government, is really going against the entire society, who aligned their will with the idea of government being the authority.
When survival is threatened all specie, all life forms, seek to reproduce. When water or food sources are scarce, or appear to be, mycelium breeches the soil surface to materialize a fruiting body, a mushroom takes shape and releases spores. Fruits, nuts, all these are reproduction mechanisms. When weather conditions change, less than optimal conditions motivate these mechanisms that have been learned by the various life forms. Adaptation. This should be a clue to vegans, that plant life is also conscious.
Porn "addiction" is an adaptation to circumstances that have a cause further upstream, in the sequential chain of cause and effect. Its also an excuse. There really is no porn addiction. Just like there really isn't any such thing as erectile dysfunction. There is only ugly women dysfunction. Your women no longer gets you turned on. And you probably don't get her turned on either.
People lie to each other, to protect each others feelings, all the time. Did that sting? To bad, rub one off, and develop some callouses. Or develop your imagination of what your wo/man used to look like, while doing each other, or separate. You two obviously were only attracted to each other superficially to begin with. She for the money, he for the show, a couple babies and your both stuck for at least 18 years mo're. Should of paid more attention to the details of each other's personalities early on, before you made the plunge. Superficial choices = superficial results.
Weed does not make you docile. Porn is not addictive. A lack of satisfaction can make you seek it out, until you are satisfied/relieved. Children should be looked after by their parents, in relation to both weed and porn. Both of those can warp the not-yet-fully-developed. One must always weigh the circumstances involved for each individual situation. Watch out for the one-size-fits-all solution.
If we are going to spend time concerned about things that affect society adversely, the discussion should be on government, the issuance of money, usury, and the destruction of the family. Porn is not the cause for the destruction of the family. The destruction of the family is caused by the stress put on people by mostly financial problems, then political problems. Rigged economic systems destroy more relationships than anything else. Lack of owning land. Both parents having to work. Children in daycare, public schools. A weak immune system gets attacked by everything. Desperate people will do anything to make money. Like becoming a stripper, or preying on emotions to sell things to make money. An abundance of the basics for survival, offers time to think things through, before making life navigating choices.
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